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This Article Will Make You A Tinder Boss!

Wondering how to get your tinder game strong? Let’s get those swipes right.

Aren’t we all tired of swiping right and still watching Netflix without any chill? Wondering what opening lines to use? Are those pictures getting you any dates?
Is that bio too humorous or too serious? Well, pull up your socks and get ready cause Nutkhatt is here to the rescue.
Let’s turn those left swipes into right.

1. THE PHOTOGRAPHS.

SMILE.

Tinder Tip: Emilia Clarke <3
Show your smile. The best key to impressing anyone is to flaunt your smile. They won’t fall for your pout or your abs, humans are most attracted to a genuine smile.

GROUP PHOTO.

 

Tinder Tip: Interesting Social Lives Get Right Swipes
Source: The Local Switzerland

Only selfies and mirror pictures? Really not a great option. Put at least one group photo showing what good times you and your guys have together. You having a social life is a validation for your potential match to swipe right on you!
SHIRTLESS PHOTOS. Abs much? Noooo.

 

Tinder Tip: 6 pack abs while weighing a 100 kilos
Source: Reddit

NOO. A big NO. Don’t show them you’re too self-absorbed. Don’t flaunt it. Congratulations on you abs, but take it slow mate.
 
PICTURES WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX

Tinder Tip: No one wants to know about your ex
Source: Mamamia

It’s a huge turn-off to see all the pictures with the opposite sex, you have a lot of friends, cool. Save those pictures for the time your match inevitably stalks
you on other social networking platforms.

2. THE BIO. Like obviouslyyy

ADD A PINCH OF HUMOUR.
Let’s not be too mainstream, give the something they’ll have to read twice. Play a little with your bio like this man did:
“Married. A couple of kids. Just looking for some side action. OK, kidding. Single. Looking for someone who would shoplift with me.”

Contradict your profile and create suspense. Suspense drives every human being. Try something like:
“not as much of a douchebag as my flexing pictures may suggest.”

Or tell them who you are IRL and ask them to keep a secret,
“I don’t know who that nerd is in all those photographs, but I’m actually Jay-Z. Don’t tell Bey I’m here.”

KEEP IT SHORT!

Tinder Tip: Dogs will get you right swipes
Source: Crave Online

We do not want the bio to be too long, just avoid writing too much about yourself. 
Let them be curious enough about you.

WH
AT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?
Research suggests that bios describing what they’re looking for are way more successful. Just mention something you would want your match to have.
Tell them you like someone who loves to have pizza. Tell them you like dog lovers. Anything, just let them know.

GRAMMAR.
Not being a grammar nazi, but guys, it’s NOT cute when you use ‘lyf‘ for life. Just try and not make grammatical errors in the bio.

3. THE CONVERSATION

THE FIRST MESSAGE.

Tinder Tip: First Impression is the last impression
Source: Tinder Seduction

The most important phase is the opening line. Researchers say that sending a GIF instead of a text increases your chances of getting a response.
Although, if you still feel like texting instead of sending a GIF, say something that shows you took the time to read their bio and look at their profile photos.
*Do not standardise your opening line – everyone is different.*

BE PATIENT

Give some grace time for double texts. Let them say what they want to without cutting them off in between.
Also, it can be possible that your match has been busy lately and didn’t check the account. Just keep calm.

Just try and follow these simple steps and see how the magic works. And just keeping it on the desk, don’t get too serious about anything that happens on Tinder.

A few bummers again:

  • No shirtless photographs.
  • Don’t brag about yourself.
  • Keep it short and simple. Seriously guys. 

 

By Rashi Garg